Sunday, May 29, 2016

23 May 2016

Friends and family,

It's been a long long, and very fast week at the same time. So, I'm not positive where I left off but I'll dive into it.

So I did the math, it's 10hrs and 50 minutes in class every day, 1hr and 55min total in meal times, and the rest is spread out into transitioning time or shower/dress time if that makes sense. Basically every minute of my 16hr day is planned. It get's very exhausting, because I often can't crash until 11 or so, and I'm up at 6:30 every...every morning. I catch myself getting really really drowsy in class, but so far I have not fallen asleep once in any other place than my bed so that's an accomplishment in my book.

Technically this is the most times I've consecutively woken up before 7 ever haha. Time went by very slow the first week, but now it's going by quite fast. I get to bed late for a number of reasons, the main one being that we often stay up doing fun stuff like arm-wrestling. I'm ranked 2nd in my zone, to Elder Robinson, a farmer's boy from Missouri, who grew up building houses and shoveling and doing all sorts of work.. he's a strong kid, really funny too. 1 of 13 kids haha. I did beat him once though, but after he had already wrestled a couple before me...

There are lots of cool Elders and Sisters in our zone, in total we are about 20, (photo of all of us last week) and about half are Brazil-bound (there's one Hawaiian going to Brazil named Elder Ah Puck -- I mean how do you not make a joke out of that), thus they study Brazilian Portuguese in other classrooms, while the other half of us study Continental Portuguese in two other classrooms, or districts. My district, or class, consists of 4 sisters and my companions. It's pretty nice. We learn a ton, in lingual matters as well as spiritual matters, and we have a lot of fun too.

Oh on the second day at the MTC... I kid you not the second day, not even 24 hours after getting my name tag we were assigned to teach an investigator (a role-playing investigator, but they take it seriously) completely in Portuguese. If you said anything in English, she wouldn't respond. She went by the name of Alda, and it was a challenge. We ended up teaching her a total of 4 lessons, and on the 4th we invited her to baptism. The first lesson being the second day, and the last being just a few days ago. Talk about throwing us in the deep end. Just after finishing teaching Alda, we walked into class the next day to find that she is now one of our teachers. She is Sister Schill, and she attends BYU (like many of the MTC employees and teachers) and served in Portugal. She is a great teacher, like the rest.

The lessons we taught her, or Alda, were often choppy, and poorly executed. (I mean, I've only been studying Portuguese for a week) But the 4th, and last one we gave her, we were able to teach her the entire Plan of Salvation lesson. I was able to share an experience with her, testify, teach her about baptism, and finally invite her to be baptized all in Portuguese. It was amazing. In a logical sense, it was quite a feat, but the Spirit was so strong during that lesson because all we shared was improvised according to what we felt she needed to hear. It got me very excited to go teach real people! Brother Workman, one of our teachers, told us that these role-playing things should be taken seriously, and that if we did we would feel the Spirit testify to us and to them as if it was a real investigator. He said you can't fake the feelings of the Spirit, and he was right. At first I thought it was a little silly, but I decided to take it seriously like he said, and give it my all and it went great. Our next lesson is on Wednesday with a new investigator... Brother Workman haha. But he will have a new name, new story, and I'm sure it will be a great new challenge.

I would often carry a very large amount of the lesson. I'm not tooting my own horn, but I'm picking up Portuguese the best in my class. We only have teacher's for about half of our total class time, the rest is left up to us to study by ourselves, then with companions, and then language study in that order in hour rotations. Elder Karthigeyan and Elder Francis are definitely lagging behind a bit. Elder Karthigeyan is definitely putting in the effort, I'm sure he will start accelerating really soon, (it is his first Latin-based language, so I'll cut him some slack) but Elder Francis is still having a pretty hard time. He doesn't seem to have the motivation to just get stuff done and really learn. Maybe you saw last week's photos, he often nods off in class, or just kinda stares blankly. I try to encourage him and remind him that a language doesn't just fall into your ears. He is still just not growing out of his homesickness, and I don't know what else I can do. He's... stubborn for lack of a better word. I encourage and comfort him, but he often goes "yeah you're right man, I understand," but it just seems to go in one and out the other. Unfortunately, this lack of effort really adds a weak link in our companionship(s), which is why I'm often carrying 90% of the lessons we teach on my back, which can get kinda tough, but it is sure pushing me hard. We're something like 13 days in and he seems to still be at the start...

I forgot, last Tuesday Elder Francis and I got to go with Elder Karthigeyan to get his Patriarchal Blessing. It was a real pleasure. It was awfully long though haha, he's a special guy. That night, a member of the Seventy spoke at our devotion, Elder Keetch. It was a cool talk... I just really hope an apostle stops by to speak while I'm here, maybe tomorrow!

So the Italian Elder I ran into last week, Elder Pacella, is going to Jacksonville, Florida, (take note Gabe) and he's learning English here. I've chatted with him a couple more times and it's really hard to not say some Portuguese in my Italian. Ughgghhh. But, whaddyaknow, his twin brother showed up just last wednesday, a week after him, to start his MTC training for Atlanta, Georgia.. How cool is that! I saw the twin (I had heard about him previously) and got his attention in Italian, and just like his brother, he was really confused as to why and how I spoke his language when my name tag was in Portuguese haha. Good fun, I try to chat with them when I run into them. Still though, I don't think there are any Italy-bound missionaries here, which is still a disappointment. Must be another MTC.

I haven't got a bunch to say about every single day, to sum them up, they are all fun, challenging, bussssy, and full of great lessons and learning.

The language, as you could probably guess, is coming along better for sure. There is still so much to learn, but I'm improving. I understand 95% of what my teachers say, but then again they speak slow, and definitely hold back in speed and vocabulary. We sometimes use a computer program to learn our language, called TALL (I forget what it means) but it has sound clips of native speakers, and let's just say I only understand a quarter of what they say, they speak very fast, and I will definitely have to train my ears when I get in the field.
Often times in class, when we don't have a teacher and we are assigned time to study the language, we'll do so together, and I teach haha. I'm just familiar with how the grammar works, so I can help the others in my class, and I teach with 90% accuracy I'd say haha. (Don't actually like set up a lesson, but they ask me questions and I use the board and stuff to go over concepts like conjugation or articles). I'm constantly answering questions. I'm no expert, that's for sure, but Italian does still share some conceptual similarities to Portuguese, at least on paper, definitely not in sound haha.
Another fun example, "messages" is "mensagems" in Port. So, you would think, simple, "men-sah-gem." Nope, the n, and last m are silent. The first and 2nd e's are pronounced with a strange nasal-focused vowel sound that I still haven't gotten the hang of, and the g is a soft j, almost and sh. Finally, the final s is pronounced as an "sh" making it all (mind you, nasal e's) "mei-sah-geih-sh."
So yeah, the biggest challenge I find to be pronunciation.

Today was pday, of course, and we tossed a frisbee around. There were about 10 of us, with 3 frisbees (we're not allowed to play ultimate :(.....) I came up with a way to make it more challenging and more fulfilling. You throw in the direction of the circle, if you made a bad throw, or had a bad catch, you dropped to do 10 pushups/situps/squats. It was fun. Everyone was on board with my idea and it was far more exercise than just tossing a fisbee.

Anyways, I'm going overtime again, perhaps I should just shorten my scope with what I write, save some time.

gotta run, I'm going to miss dinner if I take any longer,
Elder Ward

The photos are Me and Brady *cough* Elder Hollingsworth, "Elder Ward" written in Hindi, courtesy of Elder Karthigeyan, My district, or classmates, in front of the Provo Temple, and the rest are just cheesy but necessary.





Sunday, May 22, 2016

16 May 2016 - Ciao!

Well well well,

Where to start? I've got a lot to say... so much has happened in so little time. I've actually got a notebook filled with some bullet notes, so as a preface this email might have some poor chronological organization. Also, I technically only have an hour to write, but rumor is because it's the first p-day (mine are Mondays) we get a little extra time.

So I'll start with the flight here. 1 hour to Roma, 2 hour layover in Roma, 10hrs to Atlanta. It was incredibly boring unfortunately, and I left most of my study-able materials in my checked bag. I really missed Italia already. It may not seem so, but I will genuinely miss living in that wonderful country. I probably wont be able to come back for a long while too... I already miss hearing Italiano everywhere. When I landed in Atlanta it was really exciting. English everywhere, Americans everywhere. It was a little strange. I grabbed my luggage and had to re-check it, but it was easy. All of the airport employees were really nice, and a lot of them cracked jokes. They were all saying "Welcome to America" and stuff which was cool. When I went through customs to re-enter the country, the security guy who checked me in asked me where I was from (of course I had to explain a little) then where I was going, then where I was going after that. After a little bit I noticed that he was asking about my mission, and it turned out he was a member with 2 daughters serving currently. I got to my gate, and ran into a couple other missionaries, but only one was going to the MTC like me, the others were returning home from their missions to Utah... typical. While I was there I also grabbed a burger from 5-Guys. It was goood.

Then I flew 3.5hrs to Salt Lake, I landed about 9pm local time. By now I'm super exhausted, virtually no sleep, and still pretty stressed. I wrote in my journal for most of the flight though because I had a lot to keep up on. I landed, headed out of the airport, passed probably 6 families with banners for their sons or daughters who were returning, and Angela found me. It was funny, she said I looked all grown up. I hopped in the car with her and her husband Thomas. We chatted, they ran me to a Little Caesar's on the way home, which was good, and then to their apartment which was literally across the street from the Provo City Center Temple. Sierra was there, and her husband Zach came a bit later. We all stayed up till 1 talking. It was good fun, it was nice to be with family again like that and to catch up with each other, and to make some good ol' Ward jokes. I got to see Holden, Angela's son who's only 8 months... He did remind me a bit of Eric. Thomas gave me some good advice and encouragement that night too. The most memorable being not to drink the orange juice, because apparently it guarantees the runs.

I crashed, and slept till about 10:30, then Angela took me to Krispy Kreme on the way to the MTC. I ate probably 5, it was goood. Then I walked into the MTC...

Got my name tag. Felt great. Picked up my learning supplies, then went to a meeting with 386 brand new missionaries immediately. Felt great. We had a nice warm welcome. After that I think I went straight to class. Then I ran in to my companion, Elder Francis. But he was being escorted or "hosted" as they call it here by none other than BRADY flippin HOLLINGSWORTH! It was so crazy! We just looked at each other for a second and then dropped our stuff for a big fat hug. It was so great... He's been here for 3.5 weeks so far and is headed to Samoa speaking Samoan in about another 3. It was so cool to see him. Whenever we run into each other we chat and stuff.

Anyways Elder Francis. He's from somewhere in Utah only a half hour away, 19yo. Bout 6 foot, blonde, simple guy. So yeah Brady (sorry, ahem) Elder Hollingsworth brought me my companion haha. Elder Francis and I get along pretty well. He's got a strong testimony and stuff, but he is having a really hard time with being away from home. He's improving, and I'm doing my best to help and encourage him, but he still is having a hard time. He can't seem to just swallow it and fight the homesickness. He loses sleep, and as a result sleeps in class. He's doing better now, but he used to not eat much at all. I'm trying to help him, but I feel there is only so much I can do. Later the first night, I was informed that I was getting a second companion, making us a trio. Cool.

Elder Karthigeyan, my second companion, is 20, from Bangalore India. We went to the Provo temple to get him endowed. It was really cool. We went back to do another session today too. He (claims to) speak Hindi, Tamil, Kanada, English, Telegu, Urdu, Malayalam, and a little Punjabi. He said if he went upstairs to talk to his uncle, he'd speak one language, and then the next floor to his grandparents, he'd speak another language. He is so awesome. Very faithful, been a member his whole life. He's got half an engineering degree, used to teach Seminary for 2 years, used to be his Elder's quorum president, and he wasn't in a small ward either. Apparently there are lots of members out there, probably because there are so many people. He likes videogames like me. He said he had a motorcycle, and lost his license twice running from the cops. Apparently they don't take enforcement seriously there. He always complains about the cold, and I think it's hot here. He said he had a 3 foot rattail before his mission too. He really likes watching American sports, and said he used to stay up all night back in India watching sports. He's very good at english though, he has a pretty heavy indian accent. He started learning in school when he was about 5. All of his experience in the church has been in english too. He is also trying some american foods for the first time, like chocolate milk and burgers. He tried a hot pocket from a vending machine and quickly bought another, he liked it a lot.

(change of topic)

I thought I would be really homesick and stuff, but surprisingly I'm not. Don't get me wrong, I miss home dearly, but I'm having so much fun here and feeling the Spirit so much, it's just phenomenal. I have made so many new friends and met so many new faces. It is so cool being back in America and being surrounded by so many strong Mormon youth. It's always fun trying to explain where I'm from and stuff. People are always kinda surprised which leads to a fun discussion. Speaking of that, I have only run into 1 Italiano so far! Kind of disappointed. But when I heard him, I walked up and just started speaking to him in Italian and he was surprised and looked at me where and just said "Ma dov'e hai imparato italiano?" (where did you learn italian?) and him and I chatted together for a bit. It felt so nice to speak Italian again. I also haven't heard about any Italian-bound missionaries here, I think they go to a different MTC or something... kind of disappointing as well.

Anyways, the language.
In short, Portuguese is freaking hard. Yes, Italian helps massively with understanding (sometimes), but it does not help, in fact I would say it hinders me when I try to speak or write. Portuguese is kind of like English, on the stance that they both have really weird spelling in contrast as to how the word actually sounds. For example, errado, you would think, is pronounced "air-rah-doe." Nope. It's pronounced "ee-hah-doo." Like in English, to a non-english speaker, they would pronounce "right" as "riggit" or something, if they followed basic pronunciation rules. Portuguese has tons of little sounds and rules for how to pronounce things. The vowels each have different pronunciations according to which syllable they're in, what letters follow them, how many there are, and what specific consonants proceed or follow the vowel. And there are silent consonants and vowels left and right too.
I've learned I love the Italian language soo much. It's so simple. Every letter makes 1 sound, and there are only like 3 rules to follow besides that, and that's it.

We spend about 12 hours in class or some sort of meeting a day, I'd say. We have 2 teachers, Brother Lemperle, who is in Vocal Point, and served in Portugal, and Brother Workman who served in Mozambique (?) in Africa, also speaking portuguese. They only speak portuguese to us. It's intense. I'm often translating for my class. I'm running out of time, so I'm going to start condensing to just a quick list I think.

-Elders 65%, Sisters 35% bout
-My branch president, President Dansie is really great and reminds me of Harrison Ford.
-BYU owns everything, it's weird. Sewer plates, power panels, everything has a Y branded into it.
-The food is good, there's BYU ice cream, a flavor called Bishop's Bash (rolling my eyes)
-Roads and cars are bigger than I remember
-Pretty mountains, everything green
-Sprinkled on and off last 2 days
-Gym time is super fun, we usually play 4 square, bc the guys playing b-ball are really hardcore. We switch it up, when we get out we do pushups and stuff.
-the MTC prob has 1k mishies, and its insanely organized and coordinated.
-probably at least 12 chapels in the mtc alone
-the gym transforms -- literally transforms, like chairs out of the wall, and cameras/projectors fold out of the wall and ceiling -- into a massive conference hall.
-I saw a one dollar coin come out of a vending machine, apparently that happens all the time here in Utah, but I freaked out.
-all sorts of foreigners here, Japanese, Islanders, Chinese, Australians, Russians, etc
-An evening devotional had 4 opening songs
-Fun fact: we use a different version of the Bible in portuguese. It is actually more accurate than the king james version because it was translated directly from greek and hebrew into portuguese.
-my lips hurt real bad (no their actually really dry bc of the change of humidity i think)
-im in the choir (well so is basically the whole MTC) but the choir director is really funny and entertaining, someone told me he conducts the MoTab sometimes.
-I did in fact run into Braden Walters, an old elementary school friend, he's going to Taiwan, Mandarin speaking

Okay I think I need to call it. I loved your guys' emails, I don't think I have time to reply to all of them. I hope this suffices. I just have so much to say and so little time!

I want to sign as Stuart, but I'm actually supposed to sign as Elder Ward,

So,
Tvb,
Elder Ward

"We are here on this earth to become; not to do, but to become."
President Dansie

PS- I'll attach some photos, stay tuned for next week too








12 May 2016 - All is Well

*This is the start of Elder Ward's Mission Blog!  He traveled from Italy to SLC where he was picked up by his cousin Angela, her husband, and their darling little boy.  Elder Ward was treated to Little Caesar's Pizza and Krispy Kreme doughnuts before heading to the MTC.  We are so grateful to Angela and Cierra for spending time with him!  He sent us a quick note after heading into the MTC.  He will leave for Lisbon in about 6 weeks, after some intense training.  Like Rome, the city of Lisbon is called the City of Seven Hills.  Go figure.  He looks good, and we sure miss him!*

Hey mom, they're (forcing) giving me 5 minutes to write you guys to let you know all is safe and stuff. Let's see how much I can type!

So I thought it was going to be really rough but it has been so fantastic, only half a day down so far. It's SO HARD not to speak Italian! I have to hold myself back constantly. Anyways I need to wrap this up. You don't need to forward this to everyone and all that this is just a short one.

Anyways love you guys, you have no right to worry about me I'm doing pretty darn great.

Elder Ward