Monday, August 22, 2016

22 August 2016 Ukulele

Dear friends and family,

This ones word is "lame" because I literally have 10 minutes to read/write emails... forgive me! (at least I brought photos this time ok)

So, bullets—

—I bought a ukulele today, its pretty nice I guess. It was kinda a binge purchase but its cool and should serve me well. I mean Ive got another 2 years here so why not really.

—Last Pday I mentioned I wasnt doing super duper health wise, and well it got worse. I had a really bad stiff neck until thursday and a fever 2 days before that... so we actually stayed a day at home to rest. It was pretty lame. But my neck was really bad, it felt like someone stabbed me with a curling iron and just left it there.

—We left one day I was sick to get some meds from the pharmacy just down the street and I slammed my head really hard on a clothesline thing. Every window has wires to hang their clothes to dry, and this one was above portuguese head-level, but not american heighth. It was bad haha (see photo) This was with a stiff neck, sore body, and fever, and I still laughed at myself afterwards.

Alright, just no more time. The mission is good. We are still working hard and searching for the Lord´s elect. Im doing well, health is back to normal, and Im ready for a new week of work. Take care!

Elder Ward
 So yeah this happened.

And today I got to pass the pday with Elder Francis because Elder Marques had a meeting. So yeah good times!

Monday, August 15, 2016

15 August 2016 Puoco Tempo

Dear friends and family,

Todays word is "dedo" meaning: "finger" because I literally cant think of a better one.

Sorry folks, this ones gotta be short. My family moved to Washington this last week, so I spent some extra time soaking in the chaos that happened.

Anyways, lets get to it. Im just gonna do bullets:

—I have heard multiple times from multiple people that I speak Portuguese with an interesting accent... I hear that I carry an Italian accent which is super cool! (im really proud of it too) But most importantly people tell me I dont have an American accent... as such a lot of people think Im from scottland or ireland instead of america. Ive also inevitably inhereted a bit of a brazilian accent from elder Marques... so yeah thats cool.

—We had a zone meeting this week, it was really good, learned a lot, and ate domino´s afterwards, whaddyaknow

—This weekend was rough. I hardly slept Sat. night, so sunday was pretty rough. I had really bad stomach pains and then a stiff neck developed afterwards, felt like someone stabbed me in the neck with a curling iron... But we still worked like normal. By the end of the day I wanted to vomit and my whole body ached like crazy... but hey gotta keep on going.

This pday has been cut short, hence the short email. It ends at 2pm instead of 6, and we still have a lot to do today. President Tavares said we arent baptizing enough people, so weve lost a privelege haha. We will take that time to study instead. An interesting move on his part, but we do need to better our work here, so the extra time to study may come in handy!

Anyways I cant spare anymore time. Hope you guys enjoyed this little letter.

Elder Ward

I know, no photos... sorry.
And dont worry, Im starting to feel better now.

15 August 2016 Puoco Tempo

Dear friends and family,

Todays word is "dedo" meaning: "finger" because I literally cant think of a better one.

Sorry folks, this ones gotta be short. My family moved to Washington this last week, so I spent some extra time soaking in the chaos that happened.

Anyways, lets get to it. Im just gonna do bullets:

—I have heard multiple times from multiple people that I speak Portuguese with an interesting accent... I hear that I carry an Italian accent which is super cool! (im really proud of it too) But most importantly people tell me I dont have an American accent... as such a lot of people think Im from scottland or ireland instead of america. Ive also inevitably inhereted a bit of a brazilian accent from elder Marques... so yeah thats cool.

—We had a zone meeting this week, it was really good, learned a lot, and ate domino´s afterwards, whaddyaknow

—This weekend was rough. I hardly slept Sat. night, so sunday was pretty rough. I had really bad stomach pains and then a stiff neck developed afterwards, felt like someone stabbed me in the neck with a curling iron... But we still worked like normal. By the end of the day I wanted to vomit and my whole body ached like crazy... but hey gotta keep on going.

This pday has been cut short, hence the short email. It ends at 2pm instead of 6, and we still have a lot to do today. President Tavares said we arent baptizing enough people, so weve lost a privelege haha. We will take that time to study instead. An interesting move on his part, but we do need to better our work here, so the extra time to study may come in handy!

Anyways I cant spare anymore time. Hope you guys enjoyed this little letter.

Elder Ward

I know, no photos... sorry.
And dont worry, Im starting to feel better now.

8 August 2016 Pois e'

Dear friends and family,

Today´s fun word to start is a whopper I found: "otorrinolaringologista" meaning "ear nose and throat specialist", at least according to my dictionary.

So last weeks pday we headed to a rodízio, which is kinda like a buffet, more or less. We ate some good food with two other Elders, and every 5 minutes or so a guy would come to our table with a massive spike with freshly grilled meat on it (like still sizzling), and would cut us portions according to our requests. And it wasnt just one type, probably 7 or 8 different types of meats with different seasonings and such, it was pretty good. I, being a carnivore, enjoyed it.
Afterwards Elder Marques and I headed to a shoe store because I was desperately needing a new pair. The soles were only half-way attached and had holes in them to nearly my socks. My other pair already wore out in a way that changed its shape, so it started to really hurt my feet. This store had tons and tons of shoes to choose from, but with my luck, of course (just like the other 2 shoe stores we already visited in previous pdays) it didnt have shoes my size. We searched and searched, and then asked if they had anything above size 44 (european size for about 11 I think, and im 13/eu47) and they said no. But I was then led to the only stack of boxes that had a few 45´s, and I was able to find a decent pair that actually fit on my feet, and it only was so because the brand was british haha. Theyre decent shoes, look nice, but there the type that click when you walk, meaning theyve got no comfort haha. So, after 6 or so kilometers it starts to get a bit uncomforable, but hey they do the job.
We knocked out or shopping, and headed home. Obviously, having some odd 5 pounds of meat in my stomach from the buffet, I crashed immediately, only to have to get up in a half hour to start our proselyting for the evening. It was rough haha, sometimes I feel like I could sleep for a week straight, but Im only in the beginning, cant imagine how much more it will be later!

So this week was the first week of our new transfer here in Póvoa, but being the same area and same companion, Ive got nothing super new...

We´ve got an investigator named Edna. She unfortunately missed church this sunday, meaning she cant get baptized on the 13th as planned, but we are working with her and helping her through her troubles. She fortunately found a job this week which is a huge relief, but also a problem because now it might be a challenge to find her at home to teach her... But she has a true desire to better her life, and we are trying to let her do so with the gospel. She has been very receptive, but a bit reluctant with certain things like reading the BoM every day. Nonetheless, she is still progressing. Excited to work with her more this week. Shes also got a teenage son who was eavesdropping during one of our visits in the doorway... we´ll have to chat with him eventually haha.

When I arrived here in Portugal one of my first lessons was with Casimiro, an African man who has talked to the missionaries for years. We taught him that day, and he said that he was leaving for africa for a month the next day... well just last week he returned, drove by us, stopped the car in the middle of traffic, and talked to us to schedule a time to meet up.
We did so, and since our last visit he had quit smoking weed, and his cigarette smoking had also gone down. We are helping him out with this, hopefully in the near future we can see some real improvement and help him start progressing for real.
After our lesson he handed Elder Marques a guitar and almost demanded to hear some music. Elder Marques obliged, and played a little tune, Casimiro enjoyed it, and then gave it to me. The guitar was so out of tune it was futile, but it was still a laugh. Hes a cool guy.

But yeah this week we taught 2 other really cool people with potential, but they both have already left the country for work or vacation... yeah it happens actually pretty frequently. People are costantly coming and going here.

I mentioned tiredness earlier. Sometimes in meetings or things like that, tiredness just hits like a tsunami, and its tough to fight it. Ive developed the lovely habit of pinching myself in places like my wrists to wake myself up haha. Gotta do whatcha gotta do. Its just unacceptable to see a missionary sleeping anywhere but his bed at night haha.

Its been especially hot this week, and I think itll be even hotter this coming week. A couple nights this week I hardly slept because it was just like an oven. All the windows open, 2 fans, and no blankets, and I would still just sweat. But hey, its part of the deal. Itll just make me love winter all the more.

Its vacation season here too, so the population of our area, already being slim, has gotten slimmer. Sometimes we chuckle because while were walking in the road there will literally be no cars or people in sight for 15 minutes straight sometimes, and the only sound is our footsteps. But of course we work with what weve got.

Last night Elder Marques and I stayed up until 1:00am (sin!!) talking with each other. I say this because its kinda funny, but it just really shows that my portuguese is coming along super well. No, its not perfect, no, Im not already fluent, but Im definitely blessed with what Ive learned. 
Elder Marques is such a huge help. Not only for the language, but he cooks super well. Weve only eaten at member´s homes officially twice I think, but it doesnt matter because Elder Marques cooks legit meals for lunch, like legit brazillian rice beans and meat feasts... oh its gonna be tough when he goes home this transfer haha.

I love the work Im doing. Throughout my life Ive seen lots of challenges, as all people do, and Ive grown to appreciate them. When were walking in the heat, in the sun, without a breeze and Im sopping wet with sweat and super thirsty and all that, Im thankful and smile because I know its all part of the deal, and Im given such challenges to improve myself and to overcome them.
Challenges and difficulties make us stronger, thats why they come into our lives. If you get a lot of them, it just means God loves you and knows you are capable of a lot, and most importantly he knows that you are able to overcome them. He wouldnt give you a challenge if he knew you couldnt overcome it and grow because of it.
So everytime I think the mission is a little tough, Im glad it is.

(im not trying to whine about anything haha, Im doing great.)

Anyways I havent got much else. Take care everyone,
Elder Ward

So my family moved from Italy to Washington state this week, and I happened to also find this quarter in my bag. It was pretty weird thinking this week that theyre crossing the atlantic once more...

 And I also found this in a Liahona... whaddyaknow Ive been there!

1 August 2016 Cutted

Dear friends and family,

This weeks fun ol´word to start us off (I started this little joke, might as well continue it) is "cansativo" meaning "tiring" because this week was especially full of stuff going on, and tiring (in a good way).

This week was pretty cool, one a bit different from the rest, but I guess we´ll dive right in. As always, time is short, so be warned that chronological organization, grammar, and spelling are often sacrificed to get you guys the content haha.

Last Pday, after emails, Elder Marques and I didnt have any specific plans, we just wanted to head to a mall in Lisbon because he wanted some clothes. Funny enough, we exited the train there, found 4 missionaries from our district, and then in another 20 minutes in the mall we found 10 more. So, we all went bowling!
To sum it up, Im really bad at bowling, but it was still a good time. Felt really weird. In our mission we dont have to wear shirts and ties on pday, so sitting there, bowling, in shorts and a tshirt was a bit strange. It was especially weird because normal music was playing... but it was a good time. In our lane, Elder Marques won, but no matter. My first week in Portugal I beat him 3 times in ping pong (I forgot to mention this a while back, but every chapel has a ping pong table, and we played one pday).

The day after we had a division with one of the Presidents Assistents, Elder Thompson, another Utah missionary. He came to our area to spend the day with us working, to help us out, etc, making us a trio of missionaries, which was a bit different for sure. It was fun, I really enjoy seeing how other missionaries work. He was very bold and confident, I learned a lot from him. He would walk up to people having a conversation in the street, hold up a pamplet with a picture of Christ´s baptism and just straight-up ask "do you want to be baptized as Christ was?" just like that. It was funny, but cool too. Something to be learned from boldness and confidence.

The next day, we did another division. I stayed in our area, and Elder Marques went to a neighbouring one. I spent the day with Elder Tapia, a nice Elder from Indiana. We had a really good day working together. When Elder Marques isnt around, I feel the need to step up my game so to speak, and do more. We worked in Via Longa the whole day, and we did tons of contacts in the street and door knocking. The coolest part was that Elder Tapia would just hold back and let me have at it myself, so I did tons of conversations by myself without help. It was really cool. I dont want to jinx myselft, but the language is really coming along darn well. I cant give a solid rating or something like that, but I turn to Elder Marques in confusion much much less now than the beginning.
There in Via Longa, we taught Lucilia, the older lady who we found the week before. I led most of the lesson, and it turned out really well. I think she got a little tired by the end, because she didnt grasp some of our invitations at the end perfectly, but we cleared things up. The spirit was very strong, and we asked her how she was feeling during the lesson, and she said that she was feeling the spirit. We didnt have to "show" her to the answer, per se, but she really felt something special and recognized it.
However, later this week, we received a call from her saying it would be best if we didnt stop by anymore... or at least not nearly as frequently. Someone from her church came by and apparently told her about "them dangerous filthay marmins". But she was very sincere, and said she did really enjoy our visits, but she felt like she was turning her back rudely on her church... I guess its a little complicated. But later, we will surely try to make contact again.

After weeks of trying to get in contact with a specific person, Edna, we finally managed to teach her. This week, we taught her 3 times, and she came to sacrament meeting yesterday too. It was really cool. To be brief, she is going through a lot with work and other troubles in modern day life, and the gospel is what we are bringing to help her. She seems to be progressing pretty well. I wouldnt say shes running into the font right now, but she definitely is progressing, its up to us I think to help her in the best way we can.

While knocking doors, we ran into an Indian. He said he didnt know Português well, so, knowing Elder Karthigeyan, I just began talking in english, and whaddyaknow, he knew english. It was really strange though, because my mind was having a bit of a struggle thinking of what I would say in English. I cant really explain it, but my missionary mind has been trained completely in Portuguese. I havent spoken english since arriving in Portugal, basically. I kinda stuttered a bit with him, but it was still pretty cool.

Last night ended this transfer, my first one. For this next one, Im staying here in Póvoa with Elder Marques, and he´ll be the new district leader. This will be his last transfer. Our district got all jumbled up, and is now just us and 6 sisters. Should be interesting haha.

Anyways, time for some bullets I wrote down during the week-
—Elder Marques has dropped a book of mormon twice on the ground, and each time he did he said "mais dez quilos" meaning "another 10kgs". I asked him what he meant, and he said that everytime you drop a BoM on your mission your future wife gains 10 kgs, which I thought was really funny.
—Elder Marques really likes soccer, so whenever theres a soda can or bottle cap, something like that on the ground he tries to do a trick-type kick to shoot it between my legs as we walk side by side, and whenevery he succeeds he goes "goal!" and starts to imitate a crowd cheering.
—Flip-flops are great tools for killing flies and skeeters, glad I brought mine.
—E. Marques fell asleep while praying the other day... I tried to get a picture but was too late.
—I completely finished/destroyed the pair of shoes I originally arrived with (in MTC), and just finished destroying another pair, have to buy more today... I think I need to try a different brand haha.
—I had an argument (a friendly one, chill) with the patriarch (whos in our ward) about the word "cutted". He still thinks its a real word. .........But seriously, its not a real word, right guys?
—We get honked at a lot.

Anyways I think that wraps it up. Were heading to a Brazilian Buffet today for lunch, should be good.

Until next time,
Elder Ward

I didnt really take any good photos this week, my apologies... but I hope you guys enjoy anyways!