Dear family and friends,
Good news, today we didn´t do anything overboard for pday, so I´ve actually got a relaxed amount of time to write an email, so yippee I can inclode more details. I´m not gonna worry about organization or chronological order, so just read it and enjoy haha.
Here in the Loulé Branch we often have tourists that come to visit, some quite long-term (a few months every year). There is a older couple from Finland whe has come recently, they are awfully nice. They don´t speak potuguese, of course, but they speak english quite well, so every week they need a translator. There is a portuguese lady in the branch who usually does it, but when more tourists show up or she doesn´t, us missionaries have to take over. This same Finnish couple invited us over for lunch one day and it was a good time, I never thought I would dine with Finnish people on a portuguese mission.
There is also an older couple from Wales who is staying in Loulé for a time. They are really nice, and I´ve translated for them 2 times now. Last week we had fast and testimony meeting, so it was a bit easier because I got a little break between each testimony. It ran well, until the elderly lady turned to me and said (queue heavy british accent) "If I go up there, would you translate for me?". Well, I couldnt say no and deny her the opportunity to share her testimony. So, she stood up and walked to the front, and I followed, and translated a pretty lengthy testimony. She didnt stop much for me, so I had to translate big chunks at a time haha. Afterwards the finnish man felt inspired to do the same, and brought his own personal Elder translator (Elder Tapia) to the front and bore his too. Fun stuff, I didn´t need to bear my own, I bore someone else´s.
An older Danish couple showed up this last sunday too, they spoke dutch, english, and german, so Elder Jan ended up translating for them into german. He said it was pretty hard. I said "tell me about it"
That was all in the past few weeks, so now I´ll get started with what happened in this week.
We were walking in Quarteira, and we´re always stopping random people trying to "contact" them as we say, aka try to get a name, number, and appointment to teach the gospel. I saw an older man, very well dressed, in fact, more well dressed that most people we ever see on the street, so I said to Elder Jan, "ey, Imma contact that guy, he´s probably gotta a lot of money to put into tithing" (we joke about robbing people sometimes, to clarify though, we dont) So I walked up to him and did the usual "Hey good morning how are you we´re missionaries...etc" and he said "Non capisco, sono di Italia" and I just said "OOOOHH" and then my mind made an embarassing 30 second show of an attempt to speak italian, and I utterly failed. I had the words in italian in my head but when they passed through my mouth they came out in portuguese... it was lame, we only left a card with him...
Elder Jan said to me afterwards "Now you know how I feel when I try to contact people in French, just portuguese comes out." I agreed. He then said "and now youre gonna spend the next half hour re-living that contact, trying to put together all the parts in italian so it makes sense, but its too late."
And I did. I spent probably a half hour just thinking "gosh, it would have been x and y not z." It was pretty frustrating, but hey, at least I understood him for the most part. I think Im going to try and practice more. I still have a goal to teach an italian in my mission.
You´re probably wondering how Alice and Álvaro are doing, so let´s start with Alice.
Unfortunately, she has been both sick and busy lately. She actually had to go to the hospital to help her recuperate from her fall the other week. She has problems with handling her stress, which can result in her having other health problems. It´s pretty tough on her. Because of all this, we actually didnt get to visit with her this week, although we did help her carry some things for her as she walked home from work. As soon as she is ready to visit again, we will.
Álvaro is doing phenomenal. We were doing a split with the other 2 Elders in our house, Elder Tapia and Elder Tester in Quarteira, where Álvaro lives. So all 4 of us were in the same city, and all of our plans fell through. I said, hey, lets say hey to Álvaro.
He didnt know we were coming, and it was about 830 at night. We had Elder Tester and Tapia hide around a corner while Elder Jan and I knocked. Álvaro opened up and a smile immediately lit up his face "HEEYYY come in come in!" We shook his hand, still in the doorway, and when I shook his hand he literally tried to pull me inside haha. We said "wait wait we wanted you to meet some fellas" and then Elder Tapia and Tester popped out. Álvaro´s eyes went wide and he said "Mais irmãos!" (literally meaning "more brothers"), he was super excited to meet more missionaries. We all came in and chatted for a bit. Álvaro is great, truly. We left a new Book of Mormon with him that night because we learned that his phone cant use LDS tools. When we came back later this week, he had already read to 1 Nephi 12, and had marked it up a ton. He used to be a history teacher in Brasil, so he loves reading the BoM again.
He worked late saturday night just so he could get sunday morning off. He took the bus from Quarteira to Loulé and showed up to church for the first time in over ten years in a suit, beret, and a bowtie. He loved it. In sacrament meeting alone he took 4 pages of notes. He met a ton of the members, made some friends, shared his thoughts in priesthood meeting, and just soaked it all up, it was great.
We´re going to make plans in the near future to teach his wife the restored gospel, with Álvaro. We are also already talking with our branch president, Rui, about him getting the priesthood. So cool.
The lady I described last week with the really cool find story, Mónica, unfortunately has been flaking out a bit. Whenever we talk with her in person (3 times now) she seems super excited to learn about the gospel and meet up with us, but evertime the time comes she flakes saying something came up... I dunno. We will see what we can do. She is a busy woman, but everybody´s got time for the gospel, at least a little.
On another split this week, I was working with Elder Tapia in Albufeira. We took a little shortcut that crossed through some unused land. There was a bit of a dump there, lots of trash on the ground... tires, refrigerators, tvs, etc. Elder Tapia, being a 19-year-old boy browsed a bit, picked up a glass bottle, stood on top of a washing machine ready to throw it, but stopped and said "no way". He dropped the bottle and started to run down the hill. I followed him and we found a flippin pedal go-kart (see photo below). We were in a rush to an appointment so we only played with it for like 5 minutes, but it was pretty cool. Really beat up, but it still rolls.
In another division, I was with Elder Tester in Albufeira. We were doing the normal thing. I had planned to knock a certain street with him, but as we were knocking there, I looked off into the distance and I remembered a building I had seen a while back that I had actually been wanting to knock for a while. So, we ended up walking to it, about 20 minutes. We entered, went to the top floor, and started knocking on doors.
At the fifth door, we heard a voice from the other side "who is it". We always hear that, so we said "The Elders!". A moment passed, and then a woman in her forties or so opened up. We introduced ourselves, and she interrupted and said "yeah, I know who the mormons are" which is usually for us missionaries, a bad sign.
Her name is Emanuela, a brazilian. We asked her how she came to know who mormons are, and she said that she was baptized a member in brazil, when she was 14. She was basically Rapunzel, locked at home all the time by her father. Her english teacher in brazil actually introduced the gospel to her. She actually snuck out to got to church and activities. Emanuela said she loved it. However, after going to church for about 3 years her father had enough of it and sent her to her grandparent´s house which was far away, and like so, she lost contact with the church. She explained that she also passed through a terrible accident (she hasnt said much about it, but I believe it was a car accident) and has been living in Portugal for the last 20 years.
She said she didnt know the church was here too, and if it was, she thought she couldnt come back because she is divorced now. We cleared that up, and planned to come back another day to visit with her more. She said she´s doing therapy and stuff now, and cannot drive due to some of her trauma. We offered an arrangement of a ride for her to come to church, and she said she would gladly accept. She said many times she was so surprised for having found the church here.
We did, we came back with a member, Jorge, one of the Ecuadoreans. We had a good visit with her. She had set the table with a little cake and drinks. She stays at home all the time, she doesnt work, and has 2 daughters, one with 21 years and the other with 14, a nationally competitive swimmer. (No, I still havent met her.) We chatted and shared a message with her. Turns out that because of her accident she lost a lot of memory. For example, she didnt know what the Book of Mormon was. She said that when she went to the door the day we knocked, she didnt know who we were and didnt plan on opening, but when she saw our nametags, the classic misisonary nametag, she remembered suddenly and opened up. In spite of the lost memory, she still has a strong testimony and is excited to reknow the gospel through us. Jorge left a Gospel Principles book, and we left a new BoM. She said she would have her daughter read them to her, because she lost the vision in her left eye in the accident too, so reading is a challenge. However, it will be good for her daughter, because like so we´ll get two birds with one stone!
To our dismay, she didnt make it to church this Sunday, she came down with a cold. But we will visit her more this week for sure. Basically Álvaro pt. 2.
In Quarteira with Elder Jan, we knocked nearly all the doors in a 20 story apt building. Not much came out of it, most of the apt´s were empty. However, we still wrote down some names of people to pass by later.
So, later we passed by the apt. of this guy named Amadis, and in simple terms, he looks like George Clooney. Without an appointment he let us right in and expressed his curiousity to learn more in his life, and discover new things. He´s a kitesurfer and a tennis coach. He´s a very smart man, and we taught him the restoration. It ran very well, he enjoyed it a lot. He understood everything quite well, saying things like "so where is the priesthood authority today?" and good questions like that. We left a BoM with him and invited him to pray about everything, mainly the BoM. He said he would gladly. We also invited him to church the next morning, and he said "I´ll talk with my girlfriend, but I cant promise anything".
Well, guess who walked in during the opening song? Amadis and his girlfriend Macha! Macha is actually ukranian. They enjoyed sacrament meeting, but due to time didnt hang out for the other two meetings. However, I talked with Amadis afterwards, and asked him if he read and prayed, and he said "I did, just like you asked. I felt very calm and peaceful, but didnt get an answer" — gosh, you missed it, by so little haha. Nah, I explained to him that that was the spirit, seemed to understand better. He said "dont worry about it we´ll talk more this week and next sunday" and just like that we got planned to meet up again this tuesday and teach him more. He´s a really cool guy, very humble open, and kind. We´re excited to work with him. President Rui got to know him and will be coming to visit with us on tuesday too.
And thats not all! A while back, before I came to the area, Elder Jan and Elder Tapia taught a team of soccer players from Columbia. They all liked it, but one in particular showed potential, Richard. He´s a really cool fella, a short guy, dark skinned, and heavy heavy spanish. He doesnt have a phone here linked in Portugal, so contact with him was really difficult, and months passed. However, Rui got in contact with him through Whatsapp and brought him with him to church yesterday. Richard loved it too. He stayed the whole time and soaked it all up. In priesthood he shared some of his thoughts too, and I actually saw him take a photo with his phone of a passage he really liked in the Gordon B. Hinkley manual. We sent him home with the manual and he said "wait I dont have to pay?" ...classic. He said to Rui he would read the whole book that night. He has a ton of faith, and Im sure will progress well here in the near future.
Honestly it has been an insane last few weeks. The Lord really wants his vineyard to do well here, and it is definitely going well! He is guiding us to his lost sheep daily, and we dont even realize it sometimes. I feel honored to be one of the missionaries who can touch the lives of these people. These experiences are all real and all really touching, I wish I could show you all the things that are happening here, but alas, I only have a keyboard.
Take care everybody,
Elder Ward
I dunno who´s praying for me, but lots of cool stuff is happening, keep it up.
The go-kart
Found my wife too.
I mentioned this in the last email, it´s the sketch that Álvaro made of the Plan of salvation and Restoration mixed, after 10 years.
The view from the 20-story building we knocked. Quarteira.