Sunday, March 4, 2018

19 February 2018 Bomb Week




Dear family and friends,

     I said it´d be a bomb week, and it was. I wasn´t sick this week which obviously helped a lot. We got right to work. We made a list of all the people that we needed to visit that we were going to visit that last week.

     We put the week off to a good start with our interviews with president Tavares Tuesday morning. It ran well, it´s always nice to sit down and chat with president for a bit. He congratulated our hard work in Costa da Caparica, we´ve practically resurrected the area. I also chatted with Sister Tavares for a bit, she told me that when she and her husband first saw me arriving in the airport with my MTC group she commented to president "That big readhead is going to be a lot of work or he´s going to be great." I thought that was funny.
      It was a bit of travelling though, we had catch a bus and a train and another bus to get there.

Let´s talk about the people that we worked with this week.

     A couple weeks back in Costa we chatted with a 25ish yo woman from Cabo Verde. Her name was a mouthful: Adalgiza (Ah-dal-JEE-zuh). She was a bit sassy, said stuff like "oh, I already know who you guys are, nah, I already know about your message" (90% of the time people actually don´t know). So we kept her address and her number and we called her back later (this last week). We marked for that afternoon, and funny enough, we got on the bus to her town and she was already on the bus! So, we followed her to her house and we met her better and her sister, Indira. We taught the restoration, and Indira payed a lot of attention and understood well. However, each time Adalgiza threw out a distracting comment or a doubt, Indira jumped on board. Even so, we managed to give a good lesson, Indira accepted to read and pray, and to come to church and prepare to be baptized.
     Unfortunately, we didn´t manage to meet up with either of them for the rest of the week... it happens a lot. Lots of work, unexpected stuff, and yeah. I find it funny, people tell us in the lessons, "wow, this makes sense. Yeah, I want to visit your church, that´d mean a lot if all this were true!" and then they just manage to forget about it all in the unnecessary business and distractions of life.

     Nearly the same thing happened with three other ladies that we taught the same night. They understood what we taught and everything but then life just gets everything mixed up. Lot´s of people value our message but not more that other day to day things.
     It was also really funny, one of the ladies that we taught asked Elder Vigne to marry her and take her to brazil afterwards.... I don´t think she payed a lot of attention during the lesson haha. I bugged Elder Vigne all week about it.

     We were walking in the street and we saw this african man, about 50, walking down the street with light up shoes... like light up shoes for adults... We just had to talk to him.
     Elder Vigne stopped him and commented about his shoes, and we started to chat. His name is Joãoa really calm guy, lives alone, from angola. We told him that we had a message about Christ to share with him, and the next day we headed over to his house, we were running a little late. We buzzed his door, but he wasn´t home. A bit bummed, we looked around with that typical "what now" face on. A little ways off we saw a figure with glowing feet. We went running behind him and it was João! We explained to him our tardiness and he had no problem in walking back home for a moment to hear our message.
     We didn´t have much time, but we talked about the Gospel of Jesus Christ in a simple and short lesson. We invited him to continue meeting with us to prepare to be baptized as Christ was one day. He accepted.
     We came back and taught the restoration. He understood well, and enjoyed it, he had already seen the effects of the Apostasy in his life. We invited him to be baptized this next weekend and to come to church. He accepted. Good.
     We worked out a ride for him and he came to church! Turns out that João is a popular guy! We went around the chapel stopping the members one by one and pointing saying, "hey, that fella over there is João, he´s visiting today. Would you mind going and saying hi to him? Thanks" "oh, João? Heyy, I already know that guy, yeah, that´s João! I´ve seen him around town a lot/I used to work with him/he knows my cousin/he lives on my street, etc..." I thought each time "Why didn´t you introduce him to the missionaries years ago?!" oh well...
     João got to chat a bunch with a lot of members, he practically hypnotized a few toddlers with his shoes. I chatted with him afterwards about the goal he had made to be baptized as I showed him the baptismal font. He seemed a bit uneasy, which made me uneasy. Later, I brought it up again and he said "Elder, it´s not going to work out. I have to visit some relatives on saturday, I´ll be out of town." "how about sunday" "oh, ok that works. Yeah, let´s do that!"
     We´ll be visiting with him a bunch this week to teach the rest. If all goes well he´ll be baptized this sunday after church.
     Lesson learned (for you guys too): You never know who is ready for the gospel. It could be that guy you always ride the bus with, it could be your barber, it could be that guy with light-up shoes that you always pass in the street. Just thing of a way to bring up the gospel and just make a simple, simple, invite. What´s the worst that could happen?

     A couple weeks back we stopped a teenage girl in the street from Angola named Carla. She was nice but really shy. She left us with her address, and we passed by later to see what we could get out of it.
     She answered the door and we actually got to teach her with no problems. She was really nice, she used to go to another church a year or so ago. She recognizes that she needs to better, to better her relationship with God. We´ve got the stuff to fix that.
     We taught a good lesson about the Plan of Salvation and the Gospel of Jesus Christ and we showed her what she could do to grow closer to god. She accepted baptism and to come to church.
     We came back the next day, and she gave us some bad news... her mother doesn´t like us. Wont let her be baptized nor come to church. Every time.
     We taught some more and we cleared up some of Carla´s doubts and helped her with the steps for her to form a stronger testimony. She prayed in the end of the lesson and said things like "I hope that these missionaries can always come back and continue to help me/ Help me to prepare to be baptized and get to church someday/ Help my mother understand" etc. She was really open to the gospel, it´s really cool to teach her. We´ll visit on tuesday (mom´s day off) to try to talk to her. We´re going to bring our secret weapon — american cookies.

     We have a really cool kid in our ward named Marcelo, 16, african. He likes working with us, teaching with us, etc. So we walked with him for a day of work, he helped out in the lessons with João and Carla. That night, he said "hey Elders, you guys want to meet one of my frien—" "YEah, where does he live?"
     He took us to his friend´s house, Cândido, another african fellow, 18. He was a great guy, we taught the restoration and he took it well. Marcelo bore his testimony. Everything ran well, he accepted to prepare for baptism, but unfortunately had to babysit sunday, so didn´t make it to church. But even so, it was a good start. We taught once more last night and worked out some questions that he had. We´ll be continuing this week.

     We stopped a portuguese man named José close to the train station late one night, and he stopped to listen for us to a bit. I was really surprised, he was dressed in a suit and briefcase and everything, he was getting home from a day of work at the bank (you think that he might be rich?), usually people like him don´t even look at us when we talk to them haha. We taught him a brief lesson about the restoration, Elder Vigne let me teach nearly the entire lesson. He commented afterwards "it´s a good thing you tought most of it, I don´t know how to teach sophisticated people like him, sometimes they don´t take me seriously because of my slang and my accent."
     José enjoyed it. He was intrigued by our always unique news of a modern prophet. We´ll try to meet up with him once more this week.

     A couple weeks back a drunk guy named luís stopped us speaking sloppy english. We dodged his distracting comments and ended up with his address. We stopped by later to see if it was worth is and we found him sober at home and it turns out that he has already investigated the church for a few years. We had a decent lesson, we´ll give some, but not a lot of attention to him.
     Funny enough, this last week another guy stopped us in the street and immediately said "elders, come to my house, let´s pray" I thought "this guy´s gotta be Luís´s brother or something." Lo and behold, he was! We gave a brief lesson, we´ll see if they follow through with the "homework" that we left with them.

    We found another fellow who lives in the middle of nowhere in our area book named Carlos. A portuguese man, 50ish, already investigated the church for a while last year. He wasn´t baptized due to the word of wisdom, but since then he had stopped drinking, so now we´re working with him to stop smoking  too. He seems to have some potential, we´ll see what happens.

     I´m going to wrap it up here. As you see, we had a busy week! I didn´t even tell you all the details nor all the people that we taught! But we have high hopes for João, Carla, and Cândido. We´re excited to put in another week of hard work now.


Ciao,

Elder Ward




lunch today. Vigne loves McD´s




AH! I don´t know if I mentioned this fine man in my emails from Setúbal, but I´ll review anyways.
This is Lourenço. He´s catholic, and knows the missionaries for almost 20 years. He respects, but doesn´t want to join the church, even though he knows so much about it. (I personally think that he knows that it´s true, he just has some sort of hesitation... he didn´t let us teach him). Even so, he feeds the missionaries nearly as much as they please, and enjoys having them over. In setúbal I ate lunch with him probably about once a week (he fed us more that the ward! shhh). In such time, we got to know each other. He always throws little parties when missionaries have birthdays but I was transferred just before my birthday. In spite of the transfer, he called me and came to Costa da Caparica with a trunk fool of picnic stuff, food (lots of it) and a cake! He´s a great guy haha.

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